








There are guards running on either side of the car because Kufuor was recently involved in a side-collison. He was just fine, but many believe it was an assassination attempt. The whole story blew over really quickly.





On the way to the park, we passed a group of Ghanaians rollerblading and skateboarding. I realized that I had not seen these activities since leaving the Bay Area, and was happy to be reminded of them.


We toured the small Nkrumah museum, hit the bathroom and then walked toward Accra main station. As we walked into the station a Legon bound trotro passed us, and Natalie, Katie and Alicia hopped on. That left Senam, Elaine and myself catching a trotro toward the town of Nungua, east of Accra, and the town of Senam's birth. Although he was three when he moved, he knew people all over the place. Elaine and I blindly followed and met gaggles of kids and a few adults. Senam then took us to see his mom, Agnes, called Auntie Aggie, and her daughters. Let me interrupt by saying that any person your age who you know at all is referred to as your brother or sister, anybody who is older than you is an aunt or uncle or grandparent. The definition of family is a lot looser here, so Elaine and I gave up quickly on trying to establish Senam's biological family as distinguished from the people he loves and grew up with. There doesn't seem to be that big a difference. We saw his hometown, had a drink with him and Auntie Didi (wearing all black because her husband died 5 months ago. She was really sweet to us and welcomed us repeatedly). Then we got back to the trotros and continued on toward Tema. When we go tthere we took a taxi right to Senam's sisters' house. We met George, Mary's husband outside listening to the radio. He welcomed us and we walked in to a courtyard full of women joking and playing around as they cooked and made clothes. Mary is the eldest sister and clearly the one in charge. She was so kind. She gave us big hugs, took our bags, and set us down on a bench in the shade. In the US, it would be nice to get up and try to help, but in Ghana it is considered insulting (like saying 'You are not cleaning well enough, so I have to show you how to do it'). We sat nect to Monica, Senam's little sister. She works at a computer store in town, and presented me with my first marriage proposal. I politely declined, but she was fun to talk to anyway. Second oldest was Aba, who was the most feisty and Matilda was making a dress on the side to wear to a funeral that weekend. Aba and Mary were making us banku in okra stew with lobsters (they were small and you're meant to put the whole thing in your mouth and chew and swallow the meat and the shell), tilapia (full of bones but good), wele (cow skin), and vegetables, especially peppers. Elaine and I do not have enough stomach capacity to eat three huge meals because we're both snackers, but we got teased becasue it took us so long to eat and we didn't finish our portions of banku. It was fun to hang around with those girls, they were really a trip. We looked at old pictures of Senam's father and extended family and played with Mary and Aba's daughters. After a while though, we returned to the tro tro station and rode for two hours as the sunset to a town of Sege. From there it was a shared taxi ride to get to another town and when we got out it was pouring rain and lightning was crashing every two seconds to big rumbles

of thunder. We took shelter in a little shack of a bar until the rain stopped and then walked a ways down the road under the lightning bursts. All three of us had woken up early (around 4am for me and Elaine) so we were exhausted by this point. We just stared at the lighting as Senam got on his phone talking to some people from the village. When we got to the end of the road, we stared at the Volta River stretching before us. It was calm considering it had just rained and the tropical trees on the side were occasionally lit up in the huge branching strikes of lightning that were now so far away we could only hear the faintest thunder. Because it's savannah out there though, it still illuminated everything. It was beautiful. Senam's friend Zach soon arrived in a canoe from the other side of the river and we cautiously hopped in, holding our bags on our laps. Zach single-handedly paddled us up the eastern shore and then accross the river. We talked a little but mostly started at the lightning.

It was so quiet and peaceful. Nothing was moving and we could just stare at the black and purple sky. By the time we had arrived on the other side, the lightning had stopped and we were in the dark. We followed Zach and Senam overland between mud huts with thatched roofs, until we arrived at a concrete house painted yellow with a lantern on the porch. Behind the lantern was an old woman whose name, as far as we were ever told, was Madame, the matriarch of the village of about 200 people. She is the mother of Theophilus, who we met at the university in Winneba. She smiled and invited us to eat, but we politely declined because we were still full from Mary's banku. She showed us two rooms that used to belong to Theophilus and his brother and sent somebody to bring us sodas despite our protests. We drank them at a small table but shortly thereafter Elaine left for her room and Senam and I hopped into the bed in the front room and I slept my first night in the small village of Adidopke ("Ah-deed-oh-pweh")
3 comments:
Theodore Sugarlumpkins I love you!
I just caught up on your blog posts... they make me SO jealous!
Especially the beach stuff.... and jumping into the ocean.... and kids being there too... and the Independence Day celebration... and the women in the village... AWW!!!
Oooh I emailed you too so I'm all caught up on Theo Communications.
You rock my socks. Come back and let me squeeze you.
bbqs and beaches are totally all about a hard earned independence, i don't know what you are talking about!
:P
I have to say- I've got a different reaction than Julia. Bugs and sunburns and loneliness and malaria- yuck! It makes me glad I never studied abroad. Living vicariously through the gentle hum of a computer is fine by me. :p
And about bbqs and fireworks and independence connection: the fireworks symbolize our battle against the brits and all the exploding we made them do. And who wouldn't want to bbq after that? This is what I have learned from history class.
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